BONBONI SUVEJUMALANNA VALIMISED 2021
Throughout the month of July, we received inspiring photos of summer goddesses from all over Estonia, wearing BonBon Lingerie and standing up for the beauty and rights of womanhood. We are extremely grateful to all the participants and sincerely hope that the Summer Goddess challenge gave you the courage to continue feeling confident and powerful in your own body, in your lingerie, and in any attire whatsoever! By today, we have selected our 11 favorites from all the photos, and based on the interviews conducted with them, we await the help of all readers in choosing the one and only BonBon Summer Goddess, to whom we will gift 500€ worth of lingerie of her choice.
You can vote for your favorite on our Facebook page, by reacting to the chosen photo with either a like or a heart. Sunday, 15.08, is the last chance to vote, after which the winning photo with the most reactions and our Summer Goddess of this summer will be revealed. In addition, one lingerie set of choice will be raffled off among everyone who voted! To make choosing your favorite easier, it is time to meet our eleven finalists and their inspiring thoughts on the topics of femininity, self-confidence, and courage.
Lilian Lõhmus
Lilian is wearing the fairytale Wisteria Lane Underwire Bra, Thong, and Garter Belt.
What does self-confidence mean to you?
"To me, self-confidence definitely means feeling good in your own body. Being happy with yourself and feeling comfortable. Apparently, every woman has something she isn’t satisfied with regarding her appearance, and that is completely normal. There are things you have to accept, and there are things you can change. If a few extra kilos start robbing you of your self-confidence, it is perfectly okay to do something about it. You must accept yourself as you are, but this shouldn't be used as an excuse – like, 'oh, I won't even start working out, I guess I'm just made this way.' A confident woman knows what she is worth, does not compromise on it, and always strives to be the best version of herself."
What is the most important/beautiful part about being a woman for you?
"Previously, I might have said something else, but today, I am convinced that for me, it is motherhood."
What does lingerie mean to you? What is the role of lingerie in your life?
"Lingerie has played a very big role in my life professionally, as I have been a lingerie model quite a bit. At the same time, lingerie also has an important place in my private life; I like both sexy lace lingerie (who doesn't?) and casual sporty cotton lingerie. Everything depends on the situation and how I feel. The classic black lace lingerie is probably my favorite."
If you could change something for the better in the world, what would it be?
"I would wish for every child to have a wonderful, safe, and joy-filled childhood. Everything that happens in our lives starts from childhood. That way, there would likely be less evil on our planet and the resulting tragedies."
Your inspiring message/recommendation to Estonian women:
"Here's to strong women! May we know them, may we be them, may we raise them!"
Liina Saart
Liina shows her self-confidence in the electric blue Pamela collection lingerie.
What does self-confidence mean to you?
"For me, self-confidence is the courage to be exactly as I want to be, despite the opinions of other people or society. The courage to make your dreams come true and live in your own truth. The courage to be different and the courage to consider yourself special."
What is the most important/beautiful part about being a woman for you?
"Beauty. To be beautiful and to add more beauty to this world. The opportunity to admire men and be admired by them."
What does lingerie mean to you? What is the role of lingerie in your life?
"Beautiful lingerie helps me feel like a goddess of sensuality. Seductive lingerie is like a shot of self-confidence."
If you could change something for the better in the world, what would it be?
"I wish that all people would remember their true essence and why they have come here. That way, everyone could peacefully walk their own path and live in their truth without opposition and conflicts. Less fighting and more understanding and acceptance."
Your inspiring message/recommendation to Estonian women:
"Don’t save anything for special occasions; life itself is a special moment."
Eveli Reiser
Eveli feels wonderful in the daringly designed Black Orchid Bodysuit.
What does self-confidence mean to you?
"I only started to understand the meaning of the word self-confidence a couple of years ago, after 8 years of long and hard work. Self-confidence has taught me to value myself more and to be as I am, both in body and in spirit. I now admire and love my body very much, which I previously hated and criticized. And most of all, I have started to admire my small breasts. Thanks to self-confidence, I have purged push-up bras from my lingerie collection and replaced them with regular bras. If I was created with few curves, why hide that little that I have? Now I walk around with my back straight, eyes lifted from the ground, more confident, and I don't fear people's stares. And every day I tell myself how beautiful I am today. Hard work is starting to bear fruit."
What is the most important/beautiful part about being a woman for you?
"I think it’s when a woman feels good exactly as she was created. When her radiance can be seen from miles away and her shouts of joy can be heard from afar."
What does lingerie mean to you? What is the role of lingerie in your life?
"Previously, I didn't know how to appreciate beautiful lingerie. I wore what was available and what was affordable. I didn't care what I had under my clothes, as long as something covered my intimate areas. But now, having risen from the ashes like a phoenix, I value and decorate my body with beautiful and sexy lingerie. If I know I am wearing beautiful lingerie, I feel like a desirable woman even in oily overalls, and most importantly, it keeps me radiant and happy."
If you could change something for the better in the world, what would it be?
"That the evil and anger, which cause much damage both in people and in the world, would disappear."
Your inspiring message/recommendation to Estonian women:
"Women, let’s value and appreciate ourselves more. If you have fallen, it’s okay, we rise again, wipe our knees and the tears from our eyes, and move forward more confidently. NB! I always repeat this sentence when I am about to fall again."
Natalja Zjuzkova
Natalja shines in the Wisteria Lane Push-up Bra, Thong, and Garter Belt.
What does self-confidence mean to you?
"For me, it means a lot. Self-confidence is the most beautiful accessory a woman can wear. I think that self-confidence is not something you are born with, but it comes with time. When you are confident, you shine differently and you exude energy that others also feel. If you are confident, I believe you can move mountains."
What is the most important/beautiful part about being a woman for you?
"The most important part is to be feminine, both in appearance and in one's actions."
What does lingerie mean to you? What is the role of lingerie in your life?
"Lingerie plays a big role in my life, in connection with my work and daily activities. I have been a boudoir model for years and frequently attend various photo sessions, where choosing the right lingerie is very important. My morning choice of lingerie determines my mood for the day and gives me self-confidence and ensures a good mood for the whole day."
If you could change something for the better in the world, what would it be?
"I would change people's mindset, so that people would start thinking not only about themselves but also about the environment around them. Consequently, the world would change significantly, and environmental catastrophes, hunger, poverty, etc., would disappear."
Your inspiring message/recommendation to Estonian women:
"Believe in yourself and everything is possible. Always remain yourself and listen to your inner voice! Do not compare yourself with anyone, because it is precisely individuality that distinguishes us. Beauty begins the moment you decide to be yourself."
Elisabeth Purga
Elisabeth is wearing sensual Diva collection lingerie.
What does self-confidence mean to you?
"Self-confidence is satisfaction with the current moment and oneself. This does not mean that for self-confidence, there should be a lack of goals and objectives to move towards, but in my eyes, awareness of the current situation, embracing it, and seeing beauty in being yourself is essential. We tend to get trapped feeling that we are confident if certain criteria are met, while the list of criteria constantly expands, and we never reach self-confidence and self-love. Self-confidence is also expressed in trust in oneself and in life - knowing that you are cared for and everything is and will be exactly as it should. When a confident person is nearby, it is nearly impossible not to sense it, because they radiate, shine, and inspire, and there is nothing more beautiful than that. Self-confidence is an energy stemming from inner trust that exists in all of us."
What is the most important/beautiful part about being a woman for you?
"The wonder of being a woman lies in the way we experience life - deeply and completely, with all its highs and lows. I sincerely believe that even the lower periods of life are extremely necessary, and as women, we allow ourselves to experience and interpret those periods, learn from them, and, with the help of the lessons learned, rise even higher. Being a woman has so many different facets that we discover and open throughout life: motherly unconditional love and care, queenly unwavering self-confidence, mystical sensuality, girlish fun, a housewife's role as the creator and keeper of the home, and so many others... What a wonderful opportunity to experience this world in a woman's body!"
What does lingerie mean to you? What is the role of lingerie in your life?
"Celebrating the beauty of being yourself through adorning yourself is a big part of femininity for me. Dressing yourself in beautiful lingerie is one of the best ways to do this. I generally wear a matching lingerie set every day, not for anyone else, but for myself. So what if these are items of clothing that no one else may see - that doesn't make the lingerie any less important. Knowing that you are wearing beautiful undergarments under your dress always adds charm, mystery, zing, and inner confidence to the day. In addition to a beautiful appearance, lingerie must also be high-quality, as my body deserves only the best care. With BonBon lingerie, I really like that it is handmade, and wearing it, I can feel how much love and care has been dedicated to every last detail. Beautiful lingerie is also something that has always lifted my mood when I am in a slump and don't feel the best in my body. A significant part of my phone's gallery consists of lingerie photos taken for myself, which I can turn to on a gray day, and with their help, I remind myself - I am beautiful exactly as I am."
If you could change something for the better in the world, what would it be?
"I, like all of us, can indeed change the world for the better. It is not in our power to control the thoughts and behavior of others, but we have the opportunity to regulate our own, and it is through this that we can each make our own contribution to changing the world. Personally, I would like to see meaningful discussions open to change, instead of communication aimed at opposition and disagreement (which our society is currently flooded with). We tend to disparage everything and everyone who is even a gram different from us, instead of taking a moment and trying to understand them. You might not always reach an understanding even then, and that is completely natural, but I do not see how taking such polarizing positions and expressing one's opinion ever more loudly instead of having a meaningful discussion would move us forward. We could learn to see differences as something that enriches."
Your inspiring message/recommendation to Estonian women:
"Let’s cherish, love, and trust ourselves and the flow of life. Let’s know our worth, dare to be in connection with ourselves, be honest with ourselves, and make decisions and choices based on that. When the situation requires it, let’s dare to stand up for ourselves (this is something I have been paying a lot of attention to learning lately). And let’s remember that every day is worth celebrating."
Jelena Vavilova
Jelena is wearing the seductive ash-purple Pamela Bodysuit.
What does self-confidence mean to you?
,,Self-confidence is, above all, understanding oneself. Perseverance, moving forward, accepting mistakes and failures. Our life is too short to spend it on doubts and fears.’’
What is the most important/beautiful part about being a woman to you?
,,A woman’s beauty and significance lie in self-sufficiency, independence, and care.’’
What does lingerie mean to you? What is the role of lingerie in your life?
,,For me, beautiful lingerie is an attribute of irresistibility and femininity. It makes me feel like a real woman, boosts my self-esteem, makes me more confident, and charges me with positive energy for the whole day.’’
If you could change something in the world, what would it be?
,,To change our world for the better, we must change ourselves for the better, and the world will automatically begin to change. Actions, attitude towards the people around us, support. Create harmony in your heart. If every person starts to change for the better, we will change the world for the better together.’’’
Your inspiring message/recommendation to Estonian women:
,,I wish all Estonian women beauty and inspiration. Laugh more often and go through life with optimism, stay attractive for many years. Allow yourself beautiful things. The most important thing in a woman is her self-esteem.’’
Kristine Balina
Kristine dazzles with her beauty in the Wisteria Lane Underwire Bra and Thong.
What does self-confidence mean to you?
,,Self-confidence is like magic. When you start to truly believe in yourself, magic happens.’’
What is the most important/beautiful part about being a woman to you?
,,The most beautiful thing about being a woman is our ability to feel love, care, and worry for those who are in our hearts. Strong feelings are so natural to us and come from deep within the heart.’’
What does lingerie mean to you? What is the role of lingerie in your life?
,,Beautiful lingerie is an opportunity to show the love for yourself that you deserve. Choosing and buying lingerie gives you a confidence boost and injects courage. And if it happens to be comfortable lingerie, you feel as good as if you were on top of the world.’’
If you could change something in the world, what would it be?
,,Freedom is one of the values I cherish most, and taking it away from someone is something I never want to happen.’’
Your inspiring message/recommendation to Estonian women:
,,Women – let's be positive and strong. In this world, you can win with wisdom and authenticity!’’
Viktoria Skrõnnik
Viktoria is bursting with confidence in the Cece Push-up Bra and Panties.
What does self-confidence mean to you?
,,In the eyes of society, women are often seen as the weaker sex, but I am happy that I can prove the opposite to everyone. Women are truly strong and achieve success in everything they set their minds to. I want to be an example for young girls so they know that absolutely everything is possible!’’
What is the most important/beautiful part about being a woman to you?
,,The most beautiful part about being a woman for me is our rare ability to be understanding, gentle, caring, sexy, provocative, decisive, and rational all at once.’’
What does lingerie mean to you? What is the role of lingerie in your life?
,,In everyday life, comfort is most important to me, but sometimes I like to surprise my partner with something a little sexier. Or even insanely sexy.’’
If you could change something in the world, what would it be?
,,Perhaps I have already said this too many times, but I wish that men and women were happier in their bodies and stopped comparing themselves to each other. Especially comparing their bodies to photoshopped Instagram bodies! It seems so obvious and we have all heard it thousands of times, but still, the lack of self-love is a more relevant problem today than ever before.’’
Your inspiring message/recommendation to Estonian women:
,,Wear beautiful lingerie even when you know no one else will see it. Wear beautiful lingerie just for that moment when you come home from work and can admire your curvy/slender/unique/sexy body in a beautiful lingerie set in front of the mirror. Do it for that amazing feeling of being proud of your body. That way, self-love deepens every day!’’
Beatrice Randkivi
Beatrice loves herself in the enchanting Mint Passion lingerie.
What does self-confidence mean to you?
,,I think self-confidence for me is a constant trust in myself.. trust that I can be and do anything I set my goals for, and the courage to move with full force in that direction while shining! Also, the courage to remain true to your uniqueness, prioritizing your own passions and dreams, rather than burying yourself under someone else's expectations and limiting 'ideals'.’’
What is the most important/beautiful part about being a woman to you?
,,For me, the most beautiful/important part about being a woman is allowing your two poles to emerge.. It is just so authentic when a woman is fluid, gentle, sensual, and at the same time a total queen badass.. ready to conquer the world in all her glory.’’
What does lingerie mean to you? What is the role of lingerie in your life?
,,For me, lingerie is definitely self-expression, which should feel like a gentle caress on the body. Since lingerie has the first contact with our skin, it should definitely be the #1 thing to invest in and ensure that it is high-quality and, of course, in your favorite design. Lingerie must be chosen for yourself, that's where it all begins. What mystery and power there is in having the most comfortable, soft, and sexiest set hidden under regular sweatpants, which only you are aware of.. for me, it brings out a glow and self-confidence immediately!’’
If you could change something in the world, what would it be?
,,Hmm.. I would probably wish for more solidarity, freedom, and sincerity in the world instead of ambition and selfishness. We are all created to enjoy and experience this life, to pursue our dreams with 100%. It is much easier to do all of this by being wholeheartedly supportive of each other and inspiring one another along the way.’’
Your inspiring message/recommendation to Estonian women:
,,Dear Estonian woman – Dare to be yourself & dare to shine! The power hidden within you is greater than you can even imagine!!’’
Piia Saara Kivioja
Piia is stunningly beautiful wearing the Silver Mist Underwire Bra.
What does self-confidence mean to you?
,,Self-confidence is one of the most important things in everyday life for me. To live a full and exciting life, you must have the right mindset - belief in yourself and your abilities, and the courage to bring your ideas to life. A self-confident woman knows her worth and loves herself as she is. She speaks her mind and does exactly what she wants and considers right.’’
What is the most important/beautiful part about being a woman to you?
,,Being a woman is one of the most beautiful things in the world. We are beautiful, strong, independent, and being a woman feels like belonging to some extra cool secret group. One of the most important things about being a woman is to continue our mothers' and grandmothers' fight in breaking the standards and expectations set for women. We know what we want and deserve, and we achieve it.‘’
What does lingerie mean to you? What is the role of lingerie in your life?
,,The role of lingerie in everyday life should not be underestimated. The right lingerie gives you self-confidence, comfort, and makes you feel sexy and bold. When you feel good in your body and lingerie, you radiate that. Beautiful lingerie shouldn't be saved for special days - every day is special.’’
If you could change something in the world, what would it be?
,,One thing I am willing to fight for endlessly is the right and freedom to express yourself and be yourself. In fact, this applies to many areas, not just style as it might seem at first glance. By that, I mean the right to decide about your own body, orientation, appearance, clothing, and all other choices. Every person must have the opportunity to make their own choices.’’
Your inspiring message/recommendation to Estonian women:
,,Treat yourself! Buy that sexy lingerie set or tickets to Bali, because life is for living and adventuring.’’
Ketrin Rannamägi
Ketrin wears the romantic Red Flame collection lingerie.
What does self-confidence mean to you?
,,Self-confidence to me means trusting, accepting, loving, and valuing myself both inside and out. To value every moment of my day, every emotion that arises, to listen to my inner voice, and to fully trust the life process. Self-confidence doesn't only come to us when everything in life is great, but especially when we consciously look within ourselves and accept our weakest sides and flaws. Through that, we learn to see beauty around us and in the hearts of others. Self-confidence is definitely not selfish; rather, it is pure sincerity, seeing only the good in others. And WOMAN, if you are self-confident, all doors and windows are open to you.’’
What is the most important/beautiful part about being a woman to you?
,,Oh, just being a woman is POWERFUL. There is so much magic and power within us; if we want, we are ready for anything. As you can see, our wonderful women also brought home Olympic gold. Certainly, one of the most beautiful and wonderful things about a woman is our body; it is incredible what it is capable of. Carrying and keeping a soul within your own body and bringing it here to this earth is so pure and magical. I have also been very moved by Katrin Saali Saul's book "The Art of Being a Woman" ("Naiseks olemise kunst"), because I consider our archetypes important in being a woman. It is very powerful to observe yourself from the side and see how different archetypes play their role in life. It is important to understand these 4 sources of power within yourself to reach your own perfection.’’
What does lingerie mean to you? What is the role of lingerie in your life?
,,I wear lingerie primarily for myself. It also plays a very big role in my day. My lingerie determines how I feel today: whether comfortable, sporty, sexy, radiant, or free.’’
If you could change something in the world, what would it be?
,,I would make the education system more suitable for today. The future depends on our descendants, and if we want it to be bright, then how our young people think is very important.
Your inspiring message/recommendation to Estonian women:
,,Don't wear a mask in front of yourself; be honest and sincere with both yourself and others.”
We hope that the answers of the eleven chosen ones were as inspiring to you as they were to us! By listening to each other's advice and encouragement, we can make every dream come true.
To participate in the BonBon Lingerie lingerie set giveaway, remember to vote for your favorite candidate on our Facebook page. We will announce the winner of the set together with the winner of the contest on Monday, August 16th.
